Someone asked me, "Why do you keep loving someone who doesn't love you back? There are tons of fish in the water." I simply replied... "Just because it's also water, would you drink from the sea?"

person perception = first impression

our knowledge and expectation on others always form on first impression. with more contact, they form a fuller and richer impression that determine how they behave towards each other.

so what was your first impression on me?

"when we are in a good mood, we see people positively, on the other hand, when we are in a bad mood, we see others negatively.."

often perception is subjecive rather than objective. agree?

we have always been trying to find the cause to a person behaviour which is also known as attribution, which involve 2 different kind of attribution.

firstly: dispositional/internal attribution (involve attitude/personality
secondly: situational/external attribution (involve the environment)

often, when we succeed, we would think that dipositional attribution is the factor, however, when failure is the case, we would definitely says that situational attribution contribute to the factor....

example when a relationship fall apart people would often says "looking at the situation we are facing now, i dont think things will work out..."

however, on the other hand when the relationship is in the bubble of the air people would often says "see...who makes thing working?"

to a certain extent, i need you to think, reflect and anlyse.

till then....................