read:birds of feather flock together? quack quak, opposites attracts?

opposite attracts: social physchologist found that, whether choosing friend or falling in love, we are most attracted to people whose traits are DIFFERENT FROM our own.

ques: why do you think this is the case?

on the other hand

similarity attracts: social physchologist found that, wheter choosing friends or fallin gin love, we are most attracted to people whose traits are SIMILAR TO our own.

ques: why do you think this is the case?

oppinion from each individual differ. try walking down orchard road and analyse out of many 10 couples, how many couple look compatible and how many hot guys is dating a fat girl?

we are living in a world full of choices and open to oppinions. we often decide on things that we choose. some may give up and some may perservere. so for you, what is your choice?


read: absence makes heart grow fonder? croak croak, out of sight, out of mind?

we often thinks we know everything. but have you really wonder if common sense really works?



even proverbs could differ. however, it depends on how we look into things from different angle and how we could take things in hand.

sometimes, we are usually covered by hindsight bias where the tendency to exaggerate, after learning an outcome, one's ability to have foreseen how something turned out. which is also kwown as "i-knew-it-all-along" phenomenon.

we will only learn things when we have experience it.

back to it, does common sense really works?

the point is not that common sense is predictably wrong but rather, common sense usually is right AFTER THE FACT. hence, we may deceive ourselves into thinking that we know & knew more than we do and did.

okey. 4 straight hourse of lectures on biology plus social physchology plus health physcology, 1 hour lunch break and 3 hours of straight tutorial on pharmacology and adult nursing. this is the outcome.

say "yeay" for the retain of information.

"anything seems commonplace, once explained."